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Kathleen Chelquist

About Kathleen Chelquist

Busting A Divorce Myth

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Returning to my heart has been quite extraordinary, to say the least. The twists and turns are actually unbelievable. If someone had told me (even one year ago) about my future with my soon-to-be ex, Kirk, I would have never believed them. And that I would actually create peace, laughter, and even joy around the… Continue Reading →

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Going Through The Pain Of Divorce

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“I welcome the opportunity (even if painful) that my minute-to-minute experience offers me to become aware of the addictions I must reprogram to be liberated from my robot-like emotional patterns.” -Ken Keyes Jr. (The Fourth Pathway To A Higher Consciousness) It’s official…I have been a robot lately. Addictively replaying crap in my head, obsessing, and “thinking”… Continue Reading →

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Stayed In Love…And Now, Leaving In Love

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June 7th, 2014 would have been our eleven-year-wedding-anniversary. My friend told me this morning that Mercury turns retrograde starting on the seventh (what ever that means). Hmm, let me Google that…”A Cosmic Timeout.” You can say that again. One year ago, I wrote a blog called “Stay In Love, Leave In Love…Leave Limbo Behind.” Kirk… Continue Reading →

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Tears

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“Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth.” -John F. Kennedy Can I get an…AMEN! I was the queen of conformity until about the age of forty. Mid life crisis? Maybe. Who cares. I changed my mind and made a decision to do IT, differently. To change from my relentless and dreaded… Continue Reading →

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Committing To Trust Love

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“It’s amazing how people are willing to rise to your trust when you are willing to put it out there.” Cinnamon Lofton So, what does putting it  “out there” mean, anyway? It means drawing on your courage and living a life of vulnerability. I have a list all the way to the north pole on… Continue Reading →

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Farewell

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All I have ever wanted was to love and be loved. To dive in with two feet and take the biggest leap ever known. To risk looking like a fool for Love. I have known this with every breath of my being; teased and criticized that I live in fantasy world. Many truths are said… Continue Reading →

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My Contract

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My life in this past month has been beyond the scope of imagination. A story that must be told when the details can be conveyed and the timing is right. With humble conviction, a screen writer for the most suspenseful, action packed movie couldn’t even begin to make this magic up. Any doubts I have… Continue Reading →

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Choosing Enlightenment-An Example Of Surrender

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We are programmed to believe that we are “only human.” We thumb our nose at the moment-to-moment choice of enlightenment because we “think” it is a state of being. So, what is enlightenment? What does it look like? Some monk on a mountain meditating all day long? Some zoned out state of kumbaya? It could look like… Continue Reading →

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Who Are We NOT To Dream Together?

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How many of you out there are scared to…DREAM? And dream…BIG? Thinking, Who am I to live a life that I desire? That’s selfish, so I will dream for my kids or others  instead? My heart responds, Who are you not to? When we choose Love, we must be self-loving and claim how special we… Continue Reading →

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Addicted To Your Child’s Happiness? Join The Club!

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”God sends children to enlarge our hearts, and make us unselfish and full of kindly sympathies and affections.” -Mary Howitt My husband, Kirk, and I just took our son, Kaden, to see The Lego Movie, laughing at each “adult” nuance given for the viewing pleasure of us parents who would often rather be at a… Continue Reading →

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Are You Willing To SEE Vulnerability?

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“Pain is an unavoidable part of life and when you are willing to choose love-you will learn the difference between pain and suffering.” -Cinnamon Lofton Target Audience: Are you a person who has been willing to see that your dreams of: marriage, kids, career, money, friends, family, beauty, and everything but the white picket fence, has… Continue Reading →

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Sweater Girl

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“Addictions are the ONLY cause of suffering-No exceptions.” -Cinnamon Lofton April, 2011 Today, my desire is to write about someone that I am beginning to know very well: Sweater Girl. Who is she? She would happen to be me last Friday night. I was invited to an old friend’s fortieth birthday party dinner, celebrating with… Continue Reading →

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