Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks

About Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks

We are an International Learning Center that teaches core skills for conscious living and conscious loving. Our work over the past three decades has been to assist people in opening to more creativity, love, and vitality through the power of conscious relationship and whole-person learning. We are passionately committed to creating a worldwide community of people with whom we can explore new heights of love, creativity, and well-being.

The Triangle

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When you take 100% responsibility, you stand and interact as a whole person who sees others as equals. You get to weave your creativity with others and co-create. When you don’t, you get to play on The Triangle. How will you know if you’re in The Triangle? And what difference does it make?  Think of… Continue Reading →

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Unconscious Patterns In Relationship

Gay & Katie Hendricks

“I look for unconscious patterns as they emerge, and I am willing to resolve them.” In our recent Facebook survey, this sentence drew the most response. People indicated they wanted to hear more about this marker of conscious loving.  Many choices are embedded in this one sentence. The conscious loving advocate actually keeps an eye… Continue Reading →

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If You Can Only Remember One Thing…

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Sometimes in the heat of the moment or the ongoing press of life, remembering all the great stuff we learned simply disappears. When anger rises, or disappointment wilts the bloom of connection, good intentions and good practices often sink into the muck of right now being right. Over the years I’ve come to see that… Continue Reading →

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Conscious Loving Then And Now

Gay & Katie Hendricks

We wrote Conscious Loving over twenty years ago. Back then books on healthy relationships were scarce, and road maps to create a thriving and long-lasting relationship were pretty much non-existent. We’ve been delighted that readers have continued to find and use the ideas and practices in Conscious Loving over the years. One key continues to… Continue Reading →

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Relationships, Feelings And The Body, Part Two – Handling Money Struggles

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The area of money in relationships is a good place to learn about the role feelings play in our lives. Kathlyn and I have had literally thousands of conversations about money, due to the fact that more people come in for coaching about money in their relationships than for sex, parenting or other big issues. … Continue Reading →

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Relationships, Feelings And The Body

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“Alexithymia: A Rampant Relationship Epidemic”  Most of us struggle at one time or another with an inability to feel what’s going on inside us at the level of emotion and energy flow. The technical term for this problem is alexithymia. If you look it up in a medical dictionary you’ll find some very interesting clues… Continue Reading →

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Learning To Love Yourself Begins With A Commitment

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We’ve never met anyone who loved themselves deeply and unconditionally all the time. Don’t expect that you’ll be perfect at it, either. What really helps, though, is to begin with a sincere commitment to loving yourself. Circulate an affirmation through your mind that goes something like this: I commit to learning how to love myself and others… Continue Reading →

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Your Journey To Genuine Love

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You can make every step of your journey to genuine love more joyful by remembering to love and accept yourself, exactly as you are.  The moment you do this, everything begins to change.  Since it’s so powerful, you might wonder why we humans don’t remember to love ourselves more often. The reason is a four-letter… Continue Reading →

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