A place to Love and be Loved
If you’re anything like me, when faced with an important decision, your first impulse is to make a good list of Pros and Cons. And then you look for some sort of master formula that will take that list of Pros and Cons and give you one definitive answer: Yes or No. It’s efficient and… Continue Reading →
Hello, my fellow Daily Lovers. As I sit on this airplane next to my honey, I am struck by just what an Odyssey I underwent to get to this moment, full of twists and turns and lessons that all needed to be learned until I was ready to find him. Are you on a similar… Continue Reading →
Once upon a time, I used to make a dizzying number of small decisions in any given day that, let’s face it, took up A LOT of my mental energy. Here is a sampling of some of the quandaries that I use to debate: “I don’t want to get up and go for a run…. Continue Reading →
“Are you trying to get me to drink the Kool-Aid?” a new co-worker asked me, the other day. My response to him was quite simple. “We are ALL drinking our own flavor of Kool-Aid. The question is just which flavor do you want to be drinking? Let me explain. In pop culture, the term “drink the… Continue Reading →
If you’re anything like me, you really really hate looking stupid in front of someone. And so you would probably rather put up with the ”status quo” of a relationship in tortured silence rather than open your mouth and say something that might have the other person reject you, think poorly of you, or, worst of all, gossip about you…. Continue Reading →
There is an epidemic sweeping the developed world called the “not enough time” fever. Think about how many people in your life (yourself included) complain about the symptoms of this particularly contagious illness: Swelling: You can’t seem to fit in everything that you want to do. Starvation: You simply don’t have enough time to feel satiated. Anxiety:… Continue Reading →
Do you ever find that in order to keep a commitment, you have to trick yourself? For example, I was leading a teleseminar on the topic of time the other day, and one of my clients told me that, in her dream life, she would exercise in the evenings. The problem, however, is that she… Continue Reading →
As tax season looms like an upcoming visit to the dentist, it’s time for us all to extend some tender loving care to the area of life called Money. If talking about money makes you nervous, take a deep breath and read on. Money deserves as much attention as any of the other 18 Areas of… Continue Reading →
Do you ever covet someone else’s generosity, ambition, warmth or courage? Most of us experience times when we wish we were a little more of this and a little less of that. We see “this is who I am” to be an immovable truth; we say “I am not a morning person” with the same… Continue Reading →
On Sunday, I rolled my eyes. While this may seem as commonplace as saying, “On Sunday, I yawned,” the truth is that this actually is not something I normally do. In fact, it felt so strange to roll my eyes that I thought back to the last time I did so, and couldn’t remember. Six months?… Continue Reading →
Once upon a time, I used to hate New Year’s Day. It wasn’t because I had missed out on that romantic New Year’s kiss the night before, for the umteenth year in a row. It wasn’t because I had gorged myself on food and was feeling fat and flabby. No, it was because I, like… Continue Reading →
Many clients come to us at the Handel Group® not knowing what they want in some aspect of their lives. Take career, for example. They know that they are not fulfilled in their current job, but they don’t know what would be more fulfilling. They envy other people who have known from an early age what… Continue Reading →
