Clarity brings some pretty dope rewards! Ask for it!

Communication of your wants, feelings and desires is soooooo important when it comes to getting what you want. I have met many well intended people, who are mildly successful, who do not have the tools that it takes to communicate clearly.

I remember my days before I was on the personal growth path, it was very hard for me to ask for what I wanted. It could have been what I wanted emotionally or sexually from a partner,  what I wanted in a business deal, or what I wanted to be in life. I was so afraid of actually affirming my desire because I thought I would fail or that I was not good enough to get it. 

I lived, unconsciously and painfully, in ambiguity for most of my life. Ambiguity meant I didn’t really have to put myself on the line and risk failing. It meant I could sit back and blame the other person for not meeting my needs and then use that as an excuse to leave the relationship. Ambiguity was a layer of safety between myself and my dreams.

It wasn’t until I experienced a TON of pain that I realized I wasn’t really asking for what I wanted and WHY I wasn’t asking for what I really wanted. The longer I walk down the path of personal growth, the more I trust The Uni-verse. I know that within me is the knowledge, insight and power necessary to bring my best life into existence. For so long I was so afraid of that NOT happening, that I settled, lived in ambiguity and didn’t really ask for what I knew I wanted.

That kind of life may have been okay for some people, but not me. I want to be free. I want to wake up and live a passionate life every day. I want connection, peace of mind, excitement and big time success. Deep down I knew I couldn’t settle for anything less than the best. So through the pain of not getting what I wanted, I learned how to ask for what I want.

The Uni-verse is communicating with me through insights and intuition and it does with you, too. We have to ask for what we want and be willing to walk away from the good and leave room for the great. We have to have the courage to not settle and be prepared to fail. It’s only those who risk failure that find success.

Let today be the LAST day you live in ambiguity. Get clear, ask for what you want and then know it’s on it’s way as long as you don’t settle for second best. Let The Uni-verse work for you and work through you by trusting it and asking for what you want. You are worthy of all the greatness; it’s yours to have…

Love, Mastin

  • Stephanie

    I know the Uni-verse communicates with me. Like when I found The Daily Love. It’s always touching on the subject of personal growth I am currently questioning or dealing with. Like my very own personal spiritual guide. It’s great to be in touch with the Uni-verse. Thank you a million times over Mastin.

  • Kent

    This post was a huge shout out to me.
    So much so, I was in tears after reading it.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you for all you do.

  • jamesina

    thanks you so much this was just what i needed to read today. The pain of not asking or asking and not receiving when I do ask has kept me stuck in fear for so many years, finally its becoming unbearable. Change I know is my only option but fear and guilt are incredibly old friends. Reading this gave me hope.

  • I really needed this today…it spoke directly to my soul thank you so much.


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  • Valerie Avila

    Hey Mastin,

    I am 23 years old and on a path to self discovery. I look forward to reading your posts and words of wisdom every day..they have really helped guide me in the direction of the person that I strive to become and during those times where life seems to weigh a little heavy on me, I go through your posts and am reminded of all the goodness and power that I have to control my own life and happiness. Thanks for showing me the light.

  • I just discovered this blog and I found it so uplifting that I want to read every post! I agree with all of you, this is the Uni-verse talking directly to us, it would be a shame to not listen to it. Thanks for making this a better day to me 🙂

  • Eva

    Addicted to the daily love. I’m so glad I can come here every day and get a dose of inspiration, and see that I’m not alone. This is truly one of the best websites around. Thank you!

  • Damn, that is EXACTLY what I needed to hear right now. Thank you!!