I don’t know how to proceed, and it makes me nervous and moody and break out crying. My ex and I broke up 10 months ago, but if I trust my gut and my friends and his, then there are still feelings on both sides…feelings so strong, I did not know they were that strong! He seemed like he couldn’t make up his mind, wanting to see me, but not daring to go a step further. “I’m too much of a coward to fight for her, so I’d rather hope time will heal me” is what he said to a friend. I decided to move on two months ago, and didn’t contact him anymore, I told him I won’t be friends, because I’d be lying to myself. Then a few weeks ago, he started to comment/like some of my social media activity.
Now, I stumbled into him this week at a party, and we spent the entire evening together, him leaving his friends and sneaking around me, and then suggesting we sit down and talk. We spent the entire evening, and talked and it was nice…then I went home and he did so too. My gut tells me he still has strong feelings for me.. you could see it, feel it. But seeing him and not hearing from him since has left me feeling hopeless and unsure. Is he trying to push me into the friendzone? Is he too much of a coward? What do I do now? If I confront him, he’ll be too much of a coward to even admit any feelings, and just block off. Please help!
Thanks so much, lots of love!
A TDL Reader