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Daily Share – I Keep Repeating The Same Mistake

TDL_FB-iconI keep repeating the same mistake with the same man – even though I know better and that is not going to go well. I want to learn to love myself so that this comes to a stop. I am hoping by sharing I am one step closer to putting it into action.

A TDL Reader

  • jill

    Keep affirmimg “I am one step closer to action”…and believe it to achieve it. You’ve got this.

    • The Daily Love

      Love that, Jill… Thanks for sharing! -TDL Team

  • Eli

    Hello! I’ve definitely been there…I found myself dating the same kind of men. I took a 2 year break from dating and read Louise Hay’s “You Can Heal Your Life,” sat down and took a good hard look at myself. It was painful, but helped so much! I’m sure it (and other books I’m sure TDL visitors will recommend) will help you too. Posting this is a huge and important step, keep moving forward!

    • The Daily Love

      Happy to hear you’re in a better spot now! Wishing you all the best in the new year! -TDL Team

  • Dee

    Taking a long hard look within is the key! If you see it in him, it’s in you. It is impossible to see something within another person without recognising it, if you can recognise it and name it, it is within you also and that is great news believe it or not because you can heal the behaviour the attitude whatever it is. It isn’t easy and it requires diligence, daily practice, awareness and hard work and it can be painful real ‘Dark night of the Soul’ stuff but in the end, you will notice a difference – new people will be attracted to you, new men, healthier men… If that’s what you truly want. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results – if we keep doing the things that hurt us… Then why complain? I’m sending you courageous blessings for the New Year!

    • The Daily Love

      Thanks for sharing, Dee… Happy New Year to you also! -TDL Team

  • Eve4199

    My friends and I have a code phrase for when they see me repeating patterns, it’s “Groundhog’s Day”. With the help of friends and lots of personal “work” I have identified what my patterns are and more importantly, WHY I’ve had them, I can now change them. I still make mistakes but I am kind to myself and I constantly remind myself that I deserve love. Remember that everything is an opportunity to learn and grow. By identifying your patterns you have already made the first step to changing them.

    • The Daily Love

      Great insight, Eve. Thanks for sharing! -TDL Team

  • Kate

    I am in the midst of this same situation. It’s nice to see your post, not only because I can relate to it, but because it adds strength to identify with people who are going through the same thing. I very recently took action and ended it, but it’s so hard to stick it through. I’ve started a journey toward self-love and I hope you do the same- 2014 is a good time for fresh starts.