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Daily Share – It’s Time To Start Focusing On ME

TDL_FB-iconMy boyfriend and I broke up last May. I found out that he had another lover when I check his cellphone without him knowing. I said sorry for checking his phone and ask him about it because I’m getting curious about the sweet message he was sending. The messages were so sweet that the endearment he used to call me was also the endearment he called to this other person.

We we’re on a date when I saw this and before we even went home, I decided to end our relationship.

He doesn’t want to end the relationship but I had made my final decision. I still love him despite everything but I know that I can’t trust him anymore. I have forgiven him for hurting me and I’m now in the process of moving on. It’s really hard to move on when all you had are beautiful memories. I don’t know if there’s a chance for us to become friends again, hopefully in The Uni-verse’s time, we can be friends again, because when I lost him, I also lost my best friend. I hope I can get through this and focus more on my dreams and goals. Thank you TDL :)

A TDL Reader

  • Teresa

    You are doing a great job it sounds like to me… Focus on becoming your own best friend, being true to your authentic self… It is through this pain that we have the opportunity to empower ourselves, to grow and find true inner peace within… Allow yourself this time. You are worth it :-) if you aren’t already doing so I recommend reading A Return to Love, A Course In Miracles by Marianne Williamson, The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer , Daring Greatly by Brene Brown… Also watch Super Soul Sunday on OWN… Very healing and empowering… All of this helped me on my journey… I am happier, free and at inner peace because of it all… I took action and gave myself this gift… I send you positive healing energy with love :-)

  • JustMe

    This is really hard, to find out the person you love and the one you thought was your best friend hasn’t been honest with you. It my be a cliche, but cliches are just that because they are true – without trust there can be no love. It sounds as if you are on the right path , giving yourself the love and attention you need and looking to a bright future by forgiving and moving on with an open heart.

    Perhaps your gut told you something was wrong all along but you initially ignored it because you felt so much love for this person; perhaps this is why you felt you should check his phone, otherwise, why would you have bothered? It also sounds as if you trust what your intuition is telling you and have faith in your inner voice- that is a true gift to be grateful for, plus even more impressive is you had the courage of your convictions to walk away from someone who was disrespecting you.

    Hugs and much love and peace