I started dating someone 2 months ago and my first thought was where is this “relationship” going, what will it look like in the future? I also have been thinking that I don’t want to “waste” my time if this is going nowhere. But after reading TDL this morning, I realized this is exactly where I need to be and it’s not about future outcome – it’s about what I need to learn right now from this situation. This is the miracle and I need to learn whatever it is here to teach me. No more projecting into the future about how then may be a better moment than NOW.
A TDL Reader