I am here with a broken heart…one that is taking long to heal. I have been single for sometime just paying some quality time to myself until this year. Sometime at the beginning of July this year, I went out with a friend and she introduced me to her male friends. One of them I liked from the moment I laid my eyes on him, and it was like the feelings were mutual. We just clicked well and became very close since that day, and eventually a relationship started and we began spending time together more. This went on for three months, he had even introduced me to his close people, and for once in a long time, I felt I had met my soul mate.
But I guess I was wrong, because just after the three months, all of a sudden he decided to keep a distance, and whenever I try to talk to him he is either busy and says that he’ll call me back–plus requesting that I don’t ask too many questions. With that I came to think that maybe it’s because of the issues of his previous relationship that he had since he told me all about it, and I thought he needed time and suggested that to him. He said it’s okay, he will come talk to me when he feels it’s the right time. So I waited and waited, and finally last week I called him and to my surprise this man is asking me who it was and where I got his number. I am so heart broken, all that I wanted was an answer as to what really happened, what went wrong? He once told me he will come talk to me because there were things he is hearing from people, I don’t know what it was or why he didn’t come straight to me and ask me about that, so here I am hoping and waiting and always checking on my phone hoping to find a message from him.
How sad, but I know this man probably didn’t feel anything for me and all that he wanted was sex but i just happened to fall for him and all that he told me…
Any advice on how to deal with that now and in the future?
A TDL Reader