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Divine Guidance And Commitment

Liz Dialto01-02-14“Do not grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form.” ~ Rumi

This is a story about divine guidance and the ripple effect of one BIG commitment.

It was the last week of August 2013.

I was supposed to go on a trip with my ex to visit our friends and go to a concert. I decided not to go and we decided it was a good week to take some space and evaluate whether or not we were going to stay in the relationship.

There are times in life when even the most fiercely independent of us find ourselves facing the feeling of, “There’s no way I can possibly do this on my own.” Though usually painful, these are great times because we are not meant to navigate this crazy earth experience solo. (Click to tweet)

I was feeling lonely and sad and all “How did I get to this place?” so I decided to take a road trip up to Santa Barbara to visit friends. This was how I thought I would solve my “being alone” problem. I would soon find out that wasn’t what Life had in mind.

Whether or not you believe in God, spirit guides or guardian angels is none of my business and you’re welcome here no matter what. I believe in all of those things and was desiring to learn how to better communicate with them so, I downloaded Sonia Choquette’s “Ask Your Guides” on Audible for my road trip.

With traffic my two and a half hour trip turned into four and I knew the whole time it was because I needed this time with the book, so I sat calmly in my Mini Cooper on the 101 and listened.

My heart was heavy, I cried many times, and as I did I kept opening my heart to this new source of love and guidance.

I learned how to ask for guidance and be specific about it and what energies to call on for various things. For the very first time I truly, deeply felt surrounded by this divine love and guidance I’d always questioned. I realized that weekend that I’d never be alone again.

On my way back from Santa Barbara the next day, I stopped off in Malibu. Years ago a friend had driven me through Malibu and I fell in love with it, even dreamed about living there some day. It felt totally serendipitous to be there, that weekend, with my life in flux, having no idea what things were going to look like in the next few weeks.

I laid on the beach for a bit, continued listening to “Ask Your Guides”, put my toes in the ocean, and went for a walk. I breathed in the air, took in the sounds, and looked around at the beautiful homes wondering what the people who lived in them do.

At this time it wasn’t just my relationship that was up in the air, it was also my business. I’d been feeling restless, like I wanted to do something more meaningful, like I was over “health and fitness” but not really clear on what or how to transition into something else.

I started thinking about how I’d been working so hard for so many years and didn’t have much to show for it in the physical world and intuitively knew that was connected to my lack of passion for my work.

Again, my heart felt heavy, again I cried.

Then I remembered a story from my friend Kate Northrup’s book about a conversation she had with Marie Forleo once. About how Marie had wanted a brownstone in the West Village and at the time just wasn’t willing to do whatever it would take to get it. And I realized how long it’d been operating like that too, unwilling to do whatever it would take to get what I want.

I knew this was largely due to not knowing exactly what I wanted. So as I walked on the beach, staring up at those beautiful beach homes, I decided it was OK to not know what I wanted to do with my life and I got clear on one thing I did want – a beach house. I let that be the symbol for something I can hold a deep desire for in my life that would represent having figured out the rest of the details.

So, using my brand new cosmic communication skills, I let God, my angels and my highest vibration spirit guides know that I was finally willing to do whatever it takes to get it. I told them I’d be looking, listening and feeling for their guidance and thanked them profusely for their love and assistance.

Three weeks later the idea for Wild Soul Movement was born.

Two months later I met a man whose presence in my life has been one giant invitation into love and expansion (most days I can’t believe he really exists).

Four months later I moved to LA (which feels like magic everyday).

And this week, approximately nine months later, the result of that commitment was born. My website and mission finally feel my life’s work because it all unfolded with divine synchronicity, joy and ease.

Now it’s your turn, what area of your life is begging for some kind of divine intervention, clarity or even more simply – some loving and compassionate attention?

Lots of love,
Liz

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Liz DiAlto is a speaker, writer and creator of Wild Soul Movement, a sensual practice in self-discovery that combines movement, mantra and meditation.

CONVERSATION TIME. Can you relate to any of this? I’d love to know your story in the comments below! If it’s super personal and you’d rather share in a safe and sacred space, come on over to The Soul Movement Salon, my free private Facebook group where women gather to discuss all things body, mind, and soul.

  • http://www.sarahdizney.com/ Sarah Noel

    I Love, love, LOVE this!! Thanks for sharing, Liz!!

    I love the specific personal stories. Those are always so powerful! A true testament that this stuff works!

    Your sentence about not being willing to do whatever it takes to get what it is we want, resonated with me. Three years ago now I *wanted* to be a writer. I took the leap and quit my job to pursue it head-on. At first it was great, I was filled with passion and joy. Then, over the course of the past 3 years, that passion shifted to doubt and fear. Things weren’t happening as quickly as I had hoped. I wasn’t making the income I needed. I doubted whether I was truly meant to be a writer. I questioned whether it would happen for me or not. I was rolling in self-doubt and desperation.

    So much so that I watched my savings dwindle and I became depressed. The passion was GONE. I decided to let go of my dream and get a “real job” again. That was 3 months ago. And in the past 3 months, I’ve shifted completely. My passion and drive is back, and with a vengeance. I know now, without a doubt, that I AM meant to be a writer. It’s my soul’s calling. I honestly don’t feel that I FIT in the traditional work world.

    So now I’m getting back on track. I’m currently reading “The Power” by Rhonda Byrne and it is powerFUL! I’m focusing on LOVE.

    I like your suggestion to LISTEN, look, and FEEL for the guidance of our spirit guides. Maybe I should check out the book you listened to, “Ask your Guides.”

    Looking back, I see that I wasn’t very focused in my first attempt to “be a writer.” It was a fantastical idea, and one I wasn’t sure would work. It seemed so “pie in the sky.” I let myself get caught up by so many different facets of writing, jumping from one avenue to the next. I believe that was at least part of why I struggled. My focus wasn’t there.

    I like also how you said it’s ok NOT to know exactly WHAT you want to do, or how to do it, but it’s important to know at least ONE thing that you’re willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen. For you, it was the beach house. For Marie Forleo it was the brownstone. For me, it’s being a working writer and in FULL charge of my time (no more reporting to an employer and doing THEIR work). I feel more certain than ever that THAT is what I want. HOW it’ll happen… I don’t know. But that’s ok. As many say, we don’t have to know HOW, we just have to set our minds, hearts, and intentions, and go about it with LOVE. Be open.

    Open to Divine Clarity… Open to fulfilling my DREAM and passion! It CAN happen! It will. It already has. :)

    Thanks for this inspiring post!

    Sarah
    http://www.beyouliveyourdream.blogspot.com

    • The Daily Love

      Thank you for sharing your experience with us Sarah!! Thank you for being a part of the TDL community! -TDL Team

  • Dafne Díaz

    This was just inspiring, how in the moment you decided to let the universe be in charge of the situation, and focus your attention in one thing, everything changed. Trust and being ok with the uncertainty is the first step!. Great story! Thank you for sharing this, it really motivates me :)