Find Your True Life’s Purpose…Once and For All!

February 27, 2013 by Kute Blackson 33 Comments

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Looking for your life purpose is like a fish in the ocean looking for water.

It’s all around you.

Sometimes the more you seek it, the less you find it.

And when you stop seeking it you may find that it finds you effortlessly.

Many of us are in a search to find our life’s purpose and the “thing” we are here to do.

What if you gave up looking for it?

What if this very moment is your life’s purpose?

It’s not so much about what you are DOING. But who you are BEING moment to moment.

We often have grand ideas about what we think we should be doing in order to be living our life’s purpose. As a result we wait for some great inspiration to hit us over the head or a special vision from Spirit. Or a sign from the Uni-verse.

We wait. We wait. We wait.

When you put your life on hold or simply not give your gifts as fully, it’s painful.

What if you didn’t need to know the exact form of your life’s purpose in order to live it?

The real purpose of life is simply to realize and remember who you REALLY are. Who you are beyond conditioning and identity. And to be that fully.

The real purpose of life is simply to love. You don’t need a specific job, relationship, or even total clarity to be able to love. Regardless of what you are doing, where you are or who you are with, you can love.

Perhaps you are working at a job that isn’t your dream. You can still live your true life’s purpose by loving moment to moment whilst you are there. Your ability to love fully where you are now is the force that moves you closer to where you are meant to be.

When you stop looking for your life’s purpose and start living love as service to those in your life now, magic happens.

All that’s needed is that you put one step in front of the next as you go boldly in the the direction of your heart. As you trust, then the Uni-verse will rise to your support.

Your true life’s purpose is then not something you wait to find, but something that you live into. It is the invitation that life gives you to live each moment of each day as love.

When you surrender yourself to life, then your life’s purpose lives you. You are lived by life and miracles happen.

Each moment you are alive is the purpose of your life.

Stop Seeking.

Start loving.

Now.

I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

Love Now.

Kute

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Kute Blackson is a speaker and life coach. Check out his website here.

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http://beyouliveyourdream.blogspot.com/ Sarah Noel

Love this! For the longest time (my whole life really… all 35 years of it), I was trying to figure out “what I wanted to do with the rest of my life.” What could my BIG CAREER be? It took me 5 1/2 years to graduate college b/c I kept changing my major (which was fine with me… I liked college). I thought I had finally found IT – my life’s purpose. I wanted to be a teacher (no great surprise, both my parents are teachers). But I LOVED it once I started substitute teaching in college. That’s what convinced me to change my major, for the last time, to education.

Well…. after a couple years of teaching, in different schools, different grades… I finally realized and accepted that that was NOT what I wanted to for the rest of my life. *sigh*

I tried out other jobs (I’ve had many in my life). Then I thought I found IT again. Sign Language intepreting!! I went back to school. Learned the language and Deaf culture. LOVED it! Then lo and behold… a few years later didn’t want do THAT anymore either. *another sigh*

To make a long story (somewhat) short, I’m accepting now that just maybe my life’s purpose is to do lots of different things! To NOT settle in ONE job or ONE career path “for the rest of my life.” To follow my heart, wherever it leads me. To do new things. Learn new things. Try out new things. I realized THAT makes me happy. And it always has. THAT has been the constant: Change! I thrive on learning new things and in new experiences. I LIKE mixing it up now and then and making a big change.

Right now I’m working part-time at a florist (which is really funny to me b/c I never liked working with plants, flowers, or dirt), and I LOVE it! I’m also writing and self-publishing on Amazon, and love that too! Where life will take me, who knows. But I’m finally sitting back and enjoying the ride, instead of stressing out over what to do “with the rest of my life.” THIS is my life! And I love it!

Sarah
http://beyouliveyourdream.blogspot.com/2013/02/just-stop-and-enjoy-view.html
- Kute
  
  congrats sarah…. keep following your heart. you will always be guided. keep enjoying the journey!!!
Behnaz

Oh my God your my an angel! I love the video and everything you said about our “true life purpose”; it is such a great reminder of how we should live our life and take one step at a time rather than sitting and waiting for some magic to happen!

I was divorced a year ago after being married for over 20 years and it hit me really hard! I’ve been going through a roller coaster ride for the past year trying to evaluate my life and find my true calling. I was frustrated, confused and at a standstill! All my friends and family put pressure on me to just get out just get out into the world and the answer will come to you. It has been a difficult ride but with the help and support of my love ones I started working again and experience life. I’m enjoying my life once again and day by day I feel stronger and closer to my purpose by just being! I believe in the higher force that is there to guide us to where we need to be in this universe and as you said over and over we just have to take that first step. I think I’m finally able to be and just take life one day at a time.

Thank you so much for sharing your love and insight it is truly a gift!

God Bless!
Bea
- Kute
  
  Spirit is guiding you Behnaz!.. let it use you and flow. the time is now. you are it.
Sgrant59

I love this guy! I am so tired of everybody running around looking for their purpose by buying and reading this book or that book or going to seminars. This guys nails it! I just signed up to receive the Daily Love yesterday and I am so glad I did! Today is a new day full of purpose!!
- Kute
  
  its a new day!!! live this moment fully!!! you are the gift… sending you lovenow
Micheleisrael1

I too, changed majors in college and I love education. I wanted to do this and that, and had so many things I could do, I still flounder. I moved from job to job unsatified. After some time, I got very depressed because I wondered what was wrong with me, I am smart yet uncommitted to anything and I felt like I was wasting my life away. Yet my soul was yearning for passion in work. I guess as time passes, I realize that I needed this time to let go of my ego (and quit seeking high paying stressful jobs) and focus and learn to commit and follow though. I think things are changing for me because my focus is NOW to seek a position that serves others….and send that to the Universe
- Kute
  
  yes yes yes!!
li5a

Thank you so much for this. I cannot tell you how much it resonates with me!
- Kute
  
  much love li5a… keep on shining.
Jillian

This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear! Thank you!
http://twitter.com/AFBsmile AFBsmile

WOW!
Bob

When I was young, I never really thought about what my life was for or even what I wanted to do with it. I took my opportunities as they came and rode the wave. I did very well for myself. I worked in the same career field for 25 years. During my career, I rose to the top of my field and my accomplished most of my personal goals.

But something happened when I reached that plateau. I stopped to look around, take in the sights if you will, reflect on my life. I have to confess, it wasn’t what I expected. In fact it was quite a let down and it left me feeling empty, unfulfilled and restless.

The good news is all this contemplation led to a searching and the searching led to an awakening of my soul. WOW! Life is so different now from what I experienced before.

My struggle now is to shrug of all those years of conditioning and step out boldly to meet what creation has to offer. That is my challenge. Fear, apprehension and the loss of security a steady income offers, all conspire to hold me in check.

Everything I need for the rest of my life is within me. I think it isn’t about purpose as much as it is what you will do with it when you figure it out. Love is the key to overcoming fear and setting us free. Here I go!
Sandra

Hi Kute!
It’s refreshing to read a well written piece that clearly describes the simplicity of life purpose. I attended an event recently where the participants were guided through a life purpose exercise. As I looked around the room at the end of the exercise I saw everybody with their heads down, immersed in answering the questions on the form we’d all been provided. I couldn’t write anything. I had a moment where I thought “I need to write something!” but quickly let it go. So I completed the exercise with a blank piece of paper in front of me. It was then I truly realized that I was living my soul’s purpose – when you’re living from the soul there is little fear (perhaps no fear) and no attachment to outcome. As a fellow life coach I have clients longing to know their purpose in life, with the belief that IT will answer the calling they feel within. The first thing I do is work with them to uncover their values as I believe expressing ones values is a foundation piece of living on purpose. Would you agree?

Warmly,
Sandra
http://twitter.com/Natural_Natalie Natalie Etienne

I finally get it! I’ve been waiting so long for an epiphany, letting me know what my purpose is. I realize now that I just have to be, exist and love. I am already living my purpose by being here. I believe that I was not created to just take up valuable space here on earth. I must follow my heart’s desires and go where I am led. I am ready!
tedge

WOW brother Powerful!!!!!!!!!!! LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!
- Kute
  
  much love tedge!!
Jes

Recently, I went through a realization parallel to this article. I have lived long enough to recognize and be grateful for my gifts – I am artistic and good at creating with my hands, I have the heart of a teacher, and I’m a story-teller. For so long I have tried to figure out what my perfect career would be… something that would combine all my best attributes and allow me to serve the world. I’ve had many jobs, worked in several industries, and even had notable success. However, nothing seems to stick.

A while back, I was talking about this with a dear friend (who knows me and my journey very well), when she gave me the most understanding smile and said, “Sweetheart, you’re a seeker.” All at once, my understanding of my purpose in this life shifted from the material to the spiritual plane. I realized that all the things I have done and might do are manifestations of my gifts, but they are also guideposts along my path. They lead me into situations and relationships where I am needed, or where I need to learn. Therefore, I will ALWAYS be subconsciously changing my circumstances. I don’t NEED to find the ‘one perfect thing.’

This revelation has changed the way I view my life on a profound level. Now, when I’m stuck in a mundane task, I try to remember the task isn’t important for the task’s sake. It’s important for MY sake, and I ask what I’m there to learn. Just that act of bringing my consciousness into the present is amazing. I’m so thankful to have had my eyes opened!
Tal

“Yes, I’m ready!!” Saying this out loud brought me to tears. It’s like you took all my thoughts and worries and sent this reply to me. Thank you so, so much for this. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today
- Kute
  
  bless you Tal!!!
http://www.facebook.com/stephanie.drenth Stephanie Drenth

Amen!
http://www.facebook.com/stephanie.drenth Stephanie Drenth

I LOVE YOU!
- Kute
  
  big love right back!!
Moniquentoinette100

Kute, your message brought me to
tears.

After that I screamed.

I hope the neighbors don’t think
I’m crazy-actually I do.

I’m overwhelmed with joy because
Monday morning at 3a.m., my spirit spoke a similar message to me.

I heard very
clearly, “Monique Antoinette, the second you accept ALL of who you are, you
will know and forever be filled with life’s purpose. Your acceptance is the
call to which life’s purpose will deliberately move through you as an
expression of love in totality of all that you are – right now. This has been
your job from the moment you said yes to that first breath – Period!”

Kute, I feel like your message is
the physical and visual manifestation of the message I received days ago.

For two months now, I have been lovingly
treating myself to mornings with Mastin, Marie, and Gabrielle for personal and
professional inspiration. Today, I add, to my morning line-up, myself at a
higher octave than yesterday, and within this very moment……….I add YOU!

Thank you beloved brother-for
confirming my WAKE-UP

I love you – Monique Antoinette

http://moniqueantoinette.com/

Kute, your message brought me to
tears.

After that I screamed.

I hope the neighbors don’t think
I’m crazy-actually I do.

I’m overwhelmed with joy because
Monday morning at 3a.m., my spirit spoke a similar message to me.

I heard very
clearly, “Monique Antoinette, the second you accept ALL of who you are, you
will know and forever be filled with life’s purpose. Your acceptance is the
call to which life’s purpose will deliberately move through you as an
expression of love in totality of all that you are – right now. This has been
your job from the moment you said yes to that first breath – Period!”

Kute, I feel like your message is
the physical and visual manifestation of the message I received days ago.

For two months now, I have been lovingly
treating myself to mornings with Mastin, Marie, and Gabrielle for personal and
professional inspiration. Today, I add, to my morning line-up, myself at a
higher octave than yesterday, and within this very moment……….I add YOU!

Thank you beloved brother-for
confirming my WAKE-UP

I love you – Monique Antoinette

http://moniqueantoinette.com/
- Kute
  
  sending you so much love monique!!!! big!
http://dumpyourfrumpslump.blogspot.com/ Carol Fitzgerald Tyler

When the student is ready – the teachers appear. I have been in such a funk space for 2 plus years. Suddenly within the last 5 weeks – I have discovered you, Mastin, Gabrielle Bernstein, Danielle LaPorte, and Marie Forleo. I have been kicked in the teeth, played small, succumb to jealousy and unhappy people – knowing full well that there is a bigger purpose for my life. This waas yet another sign to get out and do it. To stop believing the naysayers and deliver the gifts that I have been given.

Thank you for the insight and the messages. All my best to you.
- Kute
  
  yes carol!!!! you are ready.. mastin. Gabby. danielle. marie are all amazing teachers you will grow from!.. dont stop believing.. keep reaching for your dreams!
Cd2ken

I have lived my life’s purpose up until about four years ago. I haven’t been on one path, but have followed wherever my sprit has guided me. I haven’t made a ton of money, nor have I had security in the traditional sense of the word, but I have always been able to make ends meet. Two and a half years ago, the game changed, and my partner had a baby. Since then I have been focused on more than making ends meet and trying to figure out ways to support my part of a family in the San Francisco Bay Area. I haven’t felt successful in the financial arena, but also am not feeling fulfilled in any of the career choices I have made. How do you reconcile this life purpose thing with making more than a “living wage” and merely surviving in an environment that has such high monetary demands as raising a family in the SF Bay Area? I would really love to know the answer to that.
- Gardenkayak
  
  I don’t know if the baby is staying home or is in daycare, if the latter, maybe your purpose at this time is to be a stay at home dad, chief bottle washer, chef etc. Remember that what children really need is just your undivided attention, love and that doesn’t cost. Don’t get caught up in buying stuff for your kid, I know it is natural to want to do so, but children remember events with family and friends and how it made them feel.
  
  Use the great second hand stores in the Bay area no sense paying full price for something they wear a few times. Also, if they have a Grocery Outlet store will save you tons of money on food, etc.
  
  Can’t really help at all about the life purpose stuff still trying to figure that one out for myself. Good luck
http://www.facebook.com/kim.garrett.1213 Kim E Gee

Thank you! I have been asking myelf the “what is it I am suppose to be doing question” a lot lately. What is funny is that very recently whenever I have been thinking/meditating on it, I have been hearing the “maybe you are doing what you are suppose to be doing”. But I wasn’t really listening or comprehending that until just now. I have been doing what I am suppose to be doing all along….
Minela

I’m still confused. This whole thing is frustrating and making me anxious. I feel stuck…
Lost

Kute, you say to keep taking steps in the direction of your heart’s passion and calling. But what if I do not know what my heart’s calling/passion is? How do I find what my heart’s authentic joy is? Because if I don’t know that where do I go?
- Minela
  
  I’ve been struggling with the same questions for years.