Get Out Of Your Own Way!

The most powerful prayer and affirmation is not to decree what you want.

Sometimes what you want is actually not what you REALLY want, but what you think you want based on who you think you currently are. And who you are is always evolving and expanding.

The most powerful prayer is simply to SURRENDER. To give up what you think your goal and vision should look like, to give up your attachments to the form, and to open yourself to the highest good unfolding for all concerned.

When you surrender what you think should be, you open to a higher flow of GRACE. You tap into the Uni-verse itself, and IT knows exactly how to bring about the most authentic fulfillment of your dreams and destiny.

The mind is limited. Your personality is limited. In any given moment you can only see part of the picture. Surrender moves you beyond the mind, and into a stream of magic, synchronicity and miracles.

Then you will be carried on the wings of Grace towards your perfect destiny. It may not look like what you thought, but know that what The Uni-verse has in store for you is often much bigger than your mind can ever imagine or conceive.

Surrender does not mean giving up in the typical sense. However, it does mean giving UP the limited view point of what and how you thought things should be so that things can expand into the Divine VASTNESS of what they are truly meant to be for your highest good.

It requires a deep trust in Life. You can either trust your mind, which constantly sells you all sorts of B.S. all day long. Or you can trust The Uni-verse’s Intelligence that is not only living and breathing you right now, but synchronizing all of life itself.

So when things don’t work out how you wanted them to, rather than collapse into despair, trust that the The Uni-verse has something bigger, better, and brighter in store for you than what you originally thought.

That is the time to get curious to see what is about to happen. And watch the magic of The Uni-verse unfold.

Sometimes we get afraid or overwhelmed as we think about HOW to bring our goal into reality. It can trigger fear, questioning, doubt.

The illusion is that YOU need to manifest your vision. Inherent in your authentic dream are already the seeds for it’s fulfillment. Your role is not to struggle or force anything. Your role is to simply GET YOURSELF OUT OF THE WAY so that The Uni-verse can flow through you and manifest itself as your vision in your life.

Then things are effortless, since it’s not really you DOING it.

You are then in the flow, simply showing up, participating 100% and witnessing the miraculousness of The Uni-verse at work in your life.



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P.P.S. Feel free to leave a comment below about what in particular in your life you are willing to surrender to.

  • Chrissie

    Move b*tch, get out of the way! 😀

  • ladélice

    You are soooooooooo KUUUUUUUUTE!

  • Closer2 Mydreams

    Your words gave me chills. I often wonder what is my purpose and where will I find it… Today I received clarity in one word… SURRENDER…. it feel so GOOD to know that God is in control.  THANK YOU Mr. Blackson

  • This is a great post. It was only when I learned to let go of the outcome that I really began to see that the Universe was working in my favor. It’s sort of like when you were a kid. You asked for Barbie or G.I.Joe, instead you received a similar doll but not the brand name. As a kid, you were upset, but the fact is that you were still given a gift. I realized that it might not come the way I expect it or when I expect it. It doesn’t matter. I know it’s coming and that is what I hold on to. 

  • Martini0821

    This was exactly what I needed to hear and the right time. I have held such a strong focus with such a fist around what I have envisioned and  wanted that there was no way for the UNI-verse to give me anything that would put me on the right path of happiness. so instead of being open to something outside of what I  wanted (or thought i wanted) and “riding the wave” whether that be up or down or towards my goal or maybe away or a detoured route to my goal, I FOUGHT! I fought against it, and hard. Instead of meeting these occurrences/experiences or gifts/paths with an open heart, an open mind, and an open palm I have been running. I needed this today, and I will need it tomorrow, and probably for a long time but thank you for sharing this. I got to take the time and see that its time to surrender to what’s to come, and that everything is a learning experience, I don’t need to fight it and it will all come around to my happiness in the end. This also doesn’t mean that I can  just sit on my A*S and wait for it to fall in my lap. I will have to keep a forward motion and meet the universe with gusto!! <3