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Let Go And Let Love Decide

Love is letting go.

Period.

It’s the Energy of Love that binds The Uni-verse together. Love is what breathes life into us and gives all living things this chance to be alive.

One of the most Loving things that we’ve been given from our Creator is the gift of choice. Choice is a fundamental part of life. Free will is one of our Creator’s greatest gifts to us.

Free will boils down to this: you can choose to connect to Love, or not.

Since we’ve been given the privilege to choose for ourselves, that means if you Love someone, you must give him or her that privilege. Trying to force or manipulate Love never works – it’ll only backfire.

If you say you Love someone because of what they can give you, that’s not Love, that’s selfishness. When you Love someone, it’s always from a place of overflow rather than lack.

Respecting someone’s free will can be both devastating AND truly rewarding. When you let people go to decide for themselves, they may choose things that don’t match up with your desires. There have been many times in my own life where this has happened, both in business and in my personal life.

But every time this shattering of illusion has happened, it’s brought me closer to the Truth. AND it’s brought me closer to Love.

At the same time, when you let go and honor someone’s free will there is also the possibility that they will choose you; and when that happens you have begun to plant very strong roots for a relationship.

Love is letting go because no one feels Loved when they are controlled or manipulated. No one really feels Loved when they can sense that someone is trying to take from them instead of give.

There is a difference between taking and receiving. It’s sooooo important to be able to receive Love. But to try to drain others of their Love isn’t Loving – it’s being an emotional vampire.

All this can be flipped and applies to YOU, too. You deserve to be with someone who Loves you right where you are. You deserve someone who is so connected to Love that they have the confidence to let you choose for yourself. You deserve to be in relationships where people are sharing from overflow rather than trying to be emotional vampires.

Choose to hang with people who give you the respect to let you decide. And at the same time give those you Love this same respect.

Remember, you are always provided for. The Uni-verse and The Energy of Love are always with you. Ask to feel Love’s presence and you will be filled – not by someone else, but by The Uni-verse.

Tell yourself, “Love is letting go. I am ok. Love is letting go. I am full as I am. Love is letting go. The perfect Love will find me. Love is letting go, so I let go and let Love decide”.

Love,

Mastin

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Mastin Kipp is the CEO and Founder of The Daily Love. To follow him on Twitter click here.

  • http://TheDailyLoveblog Sheila d

    Very well stated! So let go let Live decied!

  • rowena

    i now have different perspective of letting go… it is being unselfish, it is giving and letting love happen in my life. thank you <3

  • Louise

    Yes this post is great and makes so much sense!! I didn’t have this perspective on Love prior to reading this but now I have a full understanding and you explained exactly why and how to let go. Awesome Job!!! Mastin

  • http://www.planetsforthepeople.com shobhana

    such an awesome post!! thank you!

  • nichoel

    I’m always so stunned by your words :)

  • http://www.TheCoffeeHouseCoach.com Arthur

    Couldn’t have said it any better. Bravo and Blessings and Love to you my friend.

  • http://essentialiment.net/ Ariane

    This is an amazing and inspirational post, very well written.
    I would like to write the following phrase on every wall:
    “If you say you Love someone because of what they can give you, that’s not Love, that’s selfishness. When you Love someone, it’s always from a place of overflow rather than lack.”

  • Relombardi30

    thank you, just thank you.

  • Mark

    I needed this badly right now.  Thank you so much.

  • Abhinet

    nice one

  • hola

    thanks

  • Whereismybucket

    Thank you very much. IT really helped me understand some things 

  • Love

    This was incredible, just perfect, thank you for this and YOUR love to share this with us :)

  • Michi

    Thank you. I needed that to calm down from the panic and just be ok after losing a man that I loved. 

  • Iwannadoitagain

    Thank you so much for writing this I really needed this at this very moment.

  • Psychey42

    So true and so helpful. Thankyou!

  • Moeller2

    Very true and insightful thank you so much. This article has me understand love a lot better. Much appreciated

  • Moeller2

    Thank you so much for posting this article. It made me understand love so much better. Much appreciated!

  • Darshan

    Thank you :) I feel encouraged by your wisdom!

  • nelaz

    Thank you. Whenever I feel upset, I will keep coming back to this post. A simple article like this makes me feel a lot better. It teaches me what letting go is all about. It teaches me what love is. Clarity, that’s it.

  • Irish

    Letting go is Love! It’s love for yourself, love for those whom you choose to continue having in your life, and love for the one you’re letting go. It’s trusting in the process of growth; trusting that the Universe has something else for you, or another valuable lesson for you to learn. So hard to do, especially if the emotional bond there is deep, yet such a profound act of Love. Besides, real love is eternal and freeing, so letting go doesn’t mean you stop loving someone. It’s just getting rid of the have-tos. Love and light to you..