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Miss-Understanding Gratitude? Focus On What IS!

chrisassaadGratitude is one of those words that gets used a lot in many modern spiritual teachings, but which often fails to really capture the experience to which it points. Even with the helpful, practical suggestions that many have offered for creating abundance and deeper levels of fulfillment in our lives, the actual experience and proposed benefits can often evade us.

This has certainly been the case with me, up until very recently.

I’ve tried making gratitude lists and I always begin and end my prayers by giving thanks for all the goodness in my life and yet, I have never seen the practices permeate my life beyond the time I spend doing them.

I had a revelation about this recently in a conversation with my good friend and inspiring artist, Alisha Z. In this week’s video blog, I share about what I discovered and the major impact it has had on my overall state of happiness and sense of fulfillment since.

If you can relate to the experience of understanding the benefits of gratitude intellectually but not really getting it or having a firsthand breakthrough in practicing it, this vlog is for you.

Thanks for watching!

Much love,

Chris

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Chris Assaad is a singer/songwriter and inspirational artist from Toronto who left a promising career in law several years ago to pursue his dream of a career in music. Since then, Chris has been actively using his voice to enCOURAGE others to follow their dreams, express their creativity and live life to the fullest.

Connect with Chris via www.chrisassaad.comTwitter and Facebook.

Chris is also a member of the TDL Mentoring team. To learn more about the TDL Mentoring Program click here.

  • michelle

    Chris, I honestly thought I had gratitude down and almost didn’t watch your video. I am so glad I did!!! You are So right and I am thankful for your blog and video. I even jumped over to your website and what an amazing talent you are. Keep it up and thanks for being You:) May God continue to bless you in all you do:)
    Michelle:)

    • Chris Assaad

      Hey Michelle! Thanks for checking out my site and for taking the time to watch the video. Glad it spoke to you. And thank you for your warm wishes :) Much love!

  • https://www.facebook.com/michelle.marie.733450?ref=tn_tnmn Michelle Crowley

    Way cool Chris! This is perfect for me. Thank you!

    • Chris Assaad

      Sweet Michelle!

  • Lile408

    Chris ,
    Awesome video blog!! You so hit this concept on the head!!
    I have come to the same realization about gratitude as well.
    Every moment of every breath is a gift!
    Yes, and I am finding much more joy in my life too.
    I am so much more present when I am in the space that all is
    a blessing!…. Thankyou again for your mindful and powerful
    thoughts.
    As I read your blogs I often think that although your passion is
    your music, your writing is an amazing gift to me.
    Always inspirational!
    Keep being YOU my brother!
    Much love from the Bay Area to Sydney

    • Chris Assaad

      Lile! Happy to hear you are finding more joy in your life and becoming present to all the goodness. What a difference our focus makes. Thank you for your kind words, I am blessed to be able to share my writing and connect with you and others in this way. Keep being YOU too! Much love :-)

  • Yolanda M.W.

    Thank you! ¡Muchas gracias Chris! Daily L♥ver

    • Chris Assaad

      Thank you for your daily love :)

  • Aurelio

    Hey, brother!… Thanks, Chris for this great video blog!… I really connected with it and with your honest expression of it… It has certainly helped me!… :-)

    LOve,

    Aurelio.

    • Chris Assaad

      Brother A! Glad you found the blog helpful. Hope you’re doing great my man! Much love

  • Theresa

    Hello Chris, thank you very much for the Vlog! It definitely struck home and this week I have 3 dinners catching up with really close friends that I am definitely going to be mindful on this with during that time. I have definitely predominately spoke of my lack in previous heart-to-heart conversations and afterwards felt dried up and guilty for laying all of my own sense of lacking on a friend as if I am expecting them to fix me. For the past 2 weeks now, I have been on the listening side of this with a close friends and it’s been really revealing of what that feels like! I too have struggled with the idea of expressing/showing/acknowledging gratitude and what that looks like for me. Your suggestion definitely has sparked hope in me and I will be putting it into practice right away. Thank you for sharing! <3

    • Chris Assaad

      Theresa, thank you for sharing your experience so openly. Sounds like you’ve got some great new awareness which will sure make it possible for new choices and a new experience to emerge. Intending your dinners this week as practice is a great place to start! Your hope makes me happy :)

  • Eliza Crowe-Maxwell

    Thank you for a great, practical vlog on how to bring gratitude into my everyday experience.
    Love and light from another Dee Why resident!
    Eliza

    • Chris Assaad

      You’re most welcome! Amazing that you’re in Dee Why! Such a beautiful place. Much love to you too Eliza :)

  • Carie Bean

    Hello Australia! Happy that you are in a place that you love! Grateful for your experience! Gratitude is definitely a way of life. Not just at bedtime or during our prayers but in each step we take and in the words we use. Totally, completely , undeniably grateful.
    Sometimes a big heart makes us carry the weight of the world on our shoulders leaving us asking how can I do more? How can I help more?
    The music pouring out from within. The mountains. The trees. The cool summer breeze. The smell of the ocean, lemons, and oranges. This won-der-filled moment relating to life. My sisters, my mother,my dad’s widowed wife. How could I not of understood, the heart was a sign a sign that I should. Believe in it all, believe what is real. God loves us, no matter how we may feel. There is a plan. Just grab on and be safe. Heart shine will guide you. Thank you- oh thank you dear ones. We are all soul mates. If we cross paths its true. Remember dear soul I was meant to meet you.

    Thankful for courage and following through. Thankful for TDL! thankful for you! Great blog today! Grateful, sure why not. The moments, the gifts, the lessons should never be forgotten. Greet each morning w/ a sweet how do you do and dance into the light letting your heart guide you through! Enjoy some of that Australian atmosphere for me and know that you are fine of a kind! Happily, Carie

    • Chris Assaad

      Love this Carrie! You are a channel of heartfelt creative goodness. Thanks for your weekly reflections and this playful dialogue. Hope you’re having a beautiful weekend. Much love my friend :)

    • WeDrum

      thankful for your awesome words…

      • Carie Bean

        Yes sweet lady I am full of some awe! Awesome indeed. Thanks for connecting! Love your smile WeDrum!

    • Sherry

      Inspiring and beautiful! Thank you

      • Carie Bean

        Thank you Sherry! I love to hear I’ve sent beauty and spirit your way! Makes me smile and my heart shine! Hope you are having a fantastic day!

  • Ma Nithya Sarvasmarana

    This was wonderful Chris. I am also working on gratitude as a way of continuous being in my life. It’s true our words and thoughts have power and expand or constrict our consciousness thus creation. This was great especially the part of how we connect with others. I caught myself doing the same thing. Focusing on what i don’t have. Whatever we think about expands.
    Great vlog once again. Today I will be more aware of my thoughts.
    Blessings!
    Sarvasmarana

  • WeDrum

    Everyday I see examples of how God works in mysterious ways – so thank you Chris… I needed this today. For someone that understands the importance of gratitude and spreading goodness in the world I too have found myself focusing on the “lack” or what hasn’t happened yet in my life. So thanks for pointing out the very thing I’ve been doing! I’m blessed to have been introduced to TDL over the summer and just today came across your blog and video. :) Proud to say that your words of inspiration will also become a part of my daily routine. Sending you good thoughts and blessings!