If you are looking for your soul mate, then this tip is for you! When working with clients who are frustrated with their lack of success in the love department, there are four common reoccurring themes.
Whether you find yourself falling prey to one or all four, let’s break each one down and discuss how to counter them.
1. Sexual Energy
If you are looking for the right one, stop having sex with anyone you have already concluded is the wrong one. No more hooking up with an ex or “friends with benefits.” People are attracted to like energy. A sense of readiness and excited motivation shines like a bright light to attract a partner with similar desires. Sex with an ex dims that light and sends an ambivalent vibe to potential mates.
2. Feng Shui
Look around your house and bedroom. Is it welcoming and open? Or is it cluttered and chaotic? By creating a nurturing and inviting living space, especially in your bedroom, you are consciously making room for a relationship. Get rid of the clutter, make some space in your closet, and clear out a drawer. Making physical space in your home for your right and perfect partner is the first step to creating space in your mind and your heart for your desire to become your reality.
Another tip to attracting your soul mate, according to the principles of feng shui, is to have pairs in your bedroom. It can be a pair of statues, two nightstands, a set of lamps, etc.
Mentally revisit all of your past relationships, even the bad ones, and figure out what YOU learned. Then give thanks for the lesson. Even if you only learned that you never want to do that again, it is still a lesson and deserves recognition and appreciation. Growth is good.
4. Downloaded Blueprints
Unpack your downloaded blueprints about relationships—negative stories about ”the way it is.” What did your family teach you about relationships? That men cannot be trusted? That women only want you for your money? Whatever those beliefs are, unpack them, look at them, and decide what you think. Change the limiting beliefs and feelings into possibility and promise.
Share your successes and struggles. If you are blissfully partnered, how did you get there and how do you two keep the flame burning? If you’re looking for love, what hinders you? What next right action can you take to bring you one step closer to creating the love you seek?
I hope you have an amazing week, filled with love, and, as always, take care of you.
Love Love Love
Just a Quick TLC Update…
In our first week kicking off Tammi’s Liver Club (TLC) fundraising effort, we are less than $1000 away from 10% of our $100,000 goal! Wooo Hooo! A HUGE thank you and mountains of gratitude to all who have contributed prayers, money, and words of kindness and are sharing my sister’s story. Please continue to share the link to the TLC website with friends and on social media sites to keep the healing love and financial relief flowing. Every contribution makes a difference. Look for more TLC FUN raising happenings in the coming weeks 😉 Visit TLC and drop a cyber hug today! ♥
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Terri Cole, founder and CEO of Live Fearless and Free, is a licensed psychotherapist, transformation coach, and an expert at turning fear into freedom. For almost two decades, Terri has empowered companies, celebrities, professional athletes and individuals to Live Fearless and Free. Recently, Terri released her first CD Meditation Transformation. Follow Terri on Twitter @terri_cole.