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So true… So be the best YOU you can be. Love, Sofie.
Hi There, reaching out to the daily lovers about how they deal with criticism. Spending my life as a peole pleaser and now no longer doing it, I have received criticism and have lost some friends. What can you say to the doubt I’m feeling about finally being “me”?
Bravo Jensy. As a recovering people pleaser I can relate. The good news is when old “friends” fall out of our universe a new space is created for a new healthier friendship to enter. Get clear about the qualities you are looking for in a new friend – acceptance for who you are is always a great place to start. Next, tet on meet up or some other type of site and start attending some functions or activities that you enjoy. I don’t just think you are going to find some new kick @## friends, I guarantee it!
I was a people pleaser and the way that I’ve been working through it, is knowing that as much as I was working hard to please everyone else, the main person I should’ve been pleasing was ME! Yes, there’s going to be people who are unhappy that I’ve started putting me first, but isn’t my happiness worth it?
It is, and light makes it possible to see the reflection