What Is Sexy To You?

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What is sexy to you?

We are bombarded with millions of images each day telling us what sexy is.

Magazines, celebrities, television, internet all sell you their version of sexy. Trying to get you to buy it.

Wear these clothes. Use this perfume. Drink this wine. Buy this jewelry. Look a certain way.

Sexy is not something you can buy.

It is what you are.

Sexy is SOUL. True sexy is not based on anything outside yourself since everything outside is transitory.

Real sexy is when you are connected to the unchanging core of your being.

Sexy is who you are BEING. It is not something you DO. The more connected you are to your true Self, the sexier you will become and the more alive you will feel. It’s about how you feel about yourself. Then your soul shines so brightly through you that you radiate the force of your Spirit.

Your personality may be imperfect. Your body will surely change over time. But your Soul is infinite, unchanging, and radiant.

Your soul has no wrinkles. Your Soul does not age. It just IS.

In our pursuit of sexy we have lost our Soulfulness.

There are thousands of courses, books, classes, and coaches all teaching you how to be sexy.

Do you know that in the US, in 2012:

$10 billion was spent on cosmetic surgery.
$14.4 billion was spent on make up.
$82 billion was spent on clothes.

As a culture we have become so obsessed with looking good on the outside, but disconnected from the source of real aliveness on the inside. You can look good on the outside but if you don’t feel good on the inside what’s the point?

Ponder this:

Real sexy is being connected to your soul and living boldly.
Real sexy is accepting and loving yourself exactly as you are.
Real sexy is being fully self expressed.
Real sexy is living your heart and generosity of spirit.
Real sexy is daring to speak and live your truth as honestly as possible.
Real sexy is being willing to live with an open heart and be vulnerable with those you love.
Real sexy is not taking yourself too seriously or life for that matter.
Real sexy is when you live fully in the present moment.
Real sexy is when you are living for a purpose bigger than yourself.

When you are tuned in to your Soul you will be turned on to Source. When you are turned on to Source your soul shines brightly. All those around you will feel it.

As you are connected to your Soul, and let it shine you will attract people to you who can see who you REALLY are. Then those that you attract into your life will be much more authentically aligned and real.

When you are connected with your soul, you begin to live for a bigger reason than yourself. You begin playing a bigger game than the ego’s game of survival, selfishness, and never-ending seeking. You move into living service and contribution.

Your soul doesn’t need anything since it is Everything.

When you know who you truly are, you become authentically sexy.

Mandela, MLK, Mother Teresa, Bruce Lee, Bob Marley, Chuang Tzu, and such were some of the sexiest people alive.

They were fully surrendered to their soul, and being lived by a purpose bigger than themselves.

Are you ready to be sexy for real?

Then know that: You are Infinite. Beyond birth. Beyond death.

Your Soul is Free.

Let your soul shine.

Love.Now

Kute

P.S. I would love to hear what sexy means to you in the comments below!

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Kute Blackson is a speaker and life coach. To learn more about him, check out his website.

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Meredith

I am even sexier over the past few weeks because…

-I gave up teetering on high heels! They make me feel off-balance and the cat is out of the bag—I’m short, okay! Who did I think I was fooling???

-I stopped wearing Spanx! They’re great, but no one even noticed I wore them and it is not sexy to be so held in on a date that I can’t even eat dinner!

-Now, I can cry in front of people! Guys think it is so sexy when I can be vulnerable and cry in front of them.

Getting sexier all the time! ;0)
- http://twitter.com/LivingUrBliss Bliss Magazine
  
  You go Gal!!!!
  - Meredith
    
    Ohhhh thank you!
    
    And any of you ladies out there wearing shapewear…this is a public service announcement for you : Free yourself! When you change back to regular panties…you won’t even believe all the wonderful sensations you forgot about. The simple act of sitting down becomes even more sexy!
Kristen

Currently working on my sexy. Making the effort every day to connect to my soul and banish societies ideas about what is sexy. So sad to see people who constantly chase youth and put themselves at risk for it. They have not awakened to to the truth of who they are….they are still trying to fit into societies ideals or satisfy social status perceptions. It’s all such a lie that we tell ourselves and fall for it over and over again in the attempt to feel accepted. We need to learn to accept ourselves first. Love ourselves first. Only then, will we be immune to the pressures of society and media and be able to rest comfortably and unapologetically in the fact that we are already enough. We are already whole. THAT is sexy.
Dale Rogerson

Absolutely true! Have decided to age with grace (and not with Botox! – but that is MY choice – I don’t judge!). I find that the more I take care of my body’s needs: physical, emotional, spiritual - by making healthy food choices, regular exercise, taking time for myself, spending time with loved ones, etc., I feel and look sexier.
I noticed I no longer want to cry when I see myself in the mirror! I feel good!
http://www.facebook.com/emilyannjennings Emily Jennings

Love love love love love this post.

Sexy is living with an open heart. Its owning the space you’re in no matter where you are or who is around. Its knowing you belong simply because you’re alive. Its being present and choosing to see the beauty and joy in the moment and letting it thrill every cell of your being. It is 100% an inside job. Thank you for writing this post. MUAH!
http://www.facebook.com/emilyannjennings Emily Jennings

Love love love love love this post.

Sexy is living with an open heart. Its owning the space you’re in no matter where you are or who is around. Its knowing you belong simply because you’re alive. Its being present and choosing to see the beauty and joy in the moment and letting it thrill every cell of your being. It is 100% an inside job. Thank you for writing this post. MUAH!
Marta Roberts

Now I looove this story! this coolio and this is awesome! xxx Truly yours marta
http://twitter.com/LivingUrBliss Bliss Magazine

I was listening to the 5th Annual Tapping World Summit and they talked about being sexy and what that means to a lot of people. It was really eye opening for me because i realized that sexy does not have to be something outside of your self (clothes, shoes, size of your hips, cars- ohhhh i love me some cool cars) but its more than that. It’s an energy that really comes from within as a result of knowing thyself. I like how you put it that Being Sexy is Being Fully Self Expressed. It’s Knowing all of you the good, the bad and the ugly and still loving all of you the good, the bad, and the ugly. This is some powerful stuff. I love it.
Liz

Yes, I am!! Than you Kute.