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What To Do When The One You Love Doesn’t Love You Back

I had a thought yesterday; it was: “The only unrequited love that truly exists is towards ourselves.”

It seems, so much in our lives, we can experience this sense of love unreturned to us by those we want it from.

You’re a lover; I’m a lover; we’re all lovers here in The Daily Love community. Deep down all we want is to love and be loved in return. That’s the true pulse of the human condition.

Regarding, romantic love specifically, I find it funny (and at times SUPER GNARLY PAINFUL) the dance we all dance. It’s like Girl A likes Boy B, but Boy A likes Girl A, and Girl B likes Boy A. I know, that confused me, too. I just think it’s funny how many times we desire the one that doesn’t want us, or that isn’t the best one for us. And yet, at the same time, we have little to no interest in people who desire us. This obviously isn’t how it always is, but here in Los Angeles, I find this trend running rampant (in my life, too).

It’s really easy to get bummed when someone you really like in that way, doesn’t like you back in that way. You know what I’m talking about – you desire them and they think of you only as a friend. Yeah – the friend zone. It happens to the best of us, guys and girls. And, not only that, we are also perpetrators of putting people who like us in the friend zone. It’s a two-way street.

The key, though, as we dance, is to remember who you are. Unrequited love from someone can be a bummer for sure, but I don’t think that actually exists. Why? It’s not because I have never been the recipient of unrequited love; quite on the contrary – it’s familiar territory (being on both sides, actually).

When we forget to Love Ourselves, when we forget The Uni-verse is on our side and wants us to thrive, when we forget that we are co-creators of our lives with The Uni-verse, then it’s easy to feel unrequited love and have it really affect you. But, I believe that the unrequited love we are feeling isn’t from the other person who we desire – it’s actually from ourselves.

When we love ourselves, we remember that rejection is protection. When we love ourselves we are careful whom we give our hearts to. When we love ourselves, we see every event of our lives as lessons and know that there are no shortages in The Uni-verse. We know that if it doesn’t work out with that someone you had your eye on, or that job you really wanted, something greater is on the way.

We love ourselves and are filled with this love; it’s nearly impossible to feel unrequited love from someone else. It’s only when we have given that person power over our lives and control over our emotional well-bring that we can feel unrequited love from them. Feeling unrequited love from someone is a symptom of low self-esteem and a misalignment with your power.

So, if you’re feeling this way, take your power back today. Put your trust in the things that The Uni-verse has in store for you. Let go a little and see what’s next. There is no shortage in The Uni-verse. There is someone perfect for you out there and they will find you as you become more and more of your authentic self.

When you are feeling the low vibrations of unrequited love, don’t go chasing after it from other people. STOP, check in within yourself and be still. If you seek out the path of trying to fill yourself up from other people or substances, you will only make it worse. Take care of yourself. Do you! Stay in your power and do things that nurture your heart and soul.

This is what I mean when I say, “The only unrequited love that truly exists is towards ourselves.” When we love ourselves, we are not seeking others to fill us and we are free to detach and welcome in the perfect person in the perfect time. And in the meantime, we fill ourselves up so that we have the serenity and joy – so we can step into savoring the waiting, instead of dreading it.

Feeling unrequited love today? Take your power back, love yourself and watch it go away.

Love,

Mastin

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Mastin Kipp is the Founder & CEO of The Daily Love. To follow him on Twitter, click here.

  • Sheki

    Thank You! This came right on time. Blessings

  • http://www.facebook.com/jazyyazi Yazmin Monet Watkins

    Hey Mastin,

    I am a spoken word poet based in Los Angeles and I totally relate to the words you post on the daily love and personally (very similar to my ‘church’ (for lack of a better word), Agape. THANK YOU for your words of encouragement, truly. Since you have given so much to me, I thought I would return the favor and share one of my poems with you (though it’s titled “Note to Self” it’s very much a poem about you):

    Note to Self,
    In case you tripped, fell and somehow forgot;
    You are brilliant.
    You wild haired angel eyed sphinx of a woman
    You hold the keys to the secret of creation.
    Riddling the world with the laughter in your wisdom
    The sorrow in your fortitude
    You are the reason stars will buckle at the puppet strings of your pressure.
    Remember, you are powerful beyond measure.
    Potential fuels your cup full – overflowing.
    You, hold the ability to throw real change into this wishing well wide world
    in the crescent mooned nailbed of your pinky.
    You whirlwind of a woman, how you dance between the cracked pavement of this world.
    You are the dancing melody that will shake this shattered earth whole.
    You adapt like rivers and flow like Spirit.
    You are humble, listen to your elders, sisterhood lights your path.
    You are talented.
    Have already accomplished so much
    Lives have been touched by YOU.
    And you are destined still for so much more.
    You are intelligent, smart, compassionate
    Always looking out for your fellow (wo)man
    You are open minded and down for life’s adventure in every turn…
    You are awkward
    And corny (in the best possible way)
    Laughing through life with diamonds in your eyes and poems on your lips
    You are free spirit like the freedom tribal dancing through the tips of your fingers
    and out through your soul.
    You are beautiful like a black star rising shinning on your way to heaven.
    If heaven is where the heart is, you carry Her with you always.
    You inspire others to sit comfortable in their skin and listen to their voice within.
    So, don’t be afraid to embrace the howling war cry ripping free from the belly of your diaphragm.
    Remember the power of the wind lying dormant under your tongue and SPEAK.
    You almost forgot who you were,
    SHOUT against the silence to the tune of insanity.
    YOU are the answer you’ve been waiting for,
    YOU are tidal waves of wisdom crashing wildly against the shore
    YOU are worth more and this life is a gift worth living
    so give it justice.
    Speak freely to your truth, open your mouth wide, heart held high like lion and
    ROAR.

    Peace, love and poetry :)
    -Yazmin Monet Watkins
    twitter @jazyyazi (http://twitter.com/#!/jazyyazi)
    http://www.facebook.com/jazyyazi

  • George

    This is an awesome article. It truly touched my life…I love reading your blog…

  • Kelly

    This was one of the most beautiful and truthful things I have ever read.

  • Renee

    This is so true Mastin and I want to add that all unrequited love does is teach us to love ourselves and others without expecting anything in return. Sometimes I believe God is filtering out wrong desires in order for us to have the best…….loving God, life, yourself and others is a prerequiste for mastering love. Thanks so much for your truth……it speaks to us all.

  • Kara

    How did you know to post this today when this was the medicine I needed? I am educated, I like to think I am smart, but sometimes I can be so dumb and not listen to my gut. I should have last night when the person I love didn’t return my love DUH! I need to love myself more thanks so much!

    Kara

  • Erin

    I think this article is very insightful, but it doesn’t really give any advice on how to “love yourself.” I think that is easier said than done and not as simple as this article makes it sound.

  • yesenia

    Ty, sometimes we need answers or advice or we need to be knocked back up to our senses.
    That’s right ” stop! Think and love my self.

  • caylee

    Beautiful,truthful and honest!

    In times like these we all forget about ourselves.
    I choose ME :)

    Thank you for that!
    Xx

  • Ann

    This is just what I needed to hear today at the exact minute I needed to hear it. You have no idea! Thank you!

  • Andrea

    Thank you Mastin. You certainly do have great timing. It’s good to have someone to remind us to love ourselves when we most need it. Bless you.

  • Et

    Wise words at the perfect time!! Thank you. Xoxo <3

  • Sixx

    Mastin, it’s 4am in NYC & I’m awake feeling that unrequited love. Thinking of ways to get it back and make it work. Reading this just now made me realize that I have work to do with finding that love within myself. This will be my work now instead of focusing on love from without, I’m going to start looking within. Thank you so much!

  • julie_bevou

    tHank you so mUch for thIs blog..we can’t love somebody else when we don’t know how to love ourselves in the first place^-^

  • Sonia

    I ABSOLUTELY love this!!!! thank you!!

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  • KN

    Dear Mastin,

    I don’t know if I completely agree with you. I love myself. I just love him too. I know that I can survive and thrive without him, that I might be happier and better off even. I just can’t let him go. I feel like he needs me. We have such a deep connection on so many levels. I’m the only person he can talk to about his feelings. I can’t distance myself. For his sake. I don’t know what to do. I know he’ll never let himself love me, I’m half his age and he would be afraid of what the world thinks. I know that pushing the matter will only force him to estrange the only true friend he has right now, me. I’ve tried so hard to let it go, but I can’t. The more I try the more I can’t stay away. I DO love myself, but I don’t know if I could continue to do so if I left him alone in the world. I’m afraid of what loneliness would do to him. It hurts me so much when he doesn’t value himself. Even now I can’t stop crying thinking about how depressed he was the last time I saw him. I never entertained the illusion that he could love me back in the same way I am for the first time admitting that I love him, but how can I help loving him? He’s so wonderful. So kind and so intelligent. So gentle and so understanding. I only wish he could love himself as much as I love him, then maybe I would be able to let him go.

  • guest

    wow, worst advice ever, didnt help at all.

  • Poisoncutie

    Thank you.

  • Mitchell silveira

    i am so much empowered by these inspirational words from you Mastin. i am taking back the power back. thanks so muh i am really grateful.
    MITCHELL

  • Stefan Ciuprina

    Wow thank you so much! You have no idea how much this helped me. I still love that girl and fell like I’ll do anything for her, but you’re right! Maybe there is someone better I will met in the future! Anyway, this message is making me fell better! Thank you again!! (sorry if bad english)

    • Stefan Ciuprina

      Why the f*ck is my name there? I didn’t even wrote this. -_-

  • allyouneedislove

    Thank you I really needed to hear that.

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  • sophia

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  • Val

    Hmmmm, dont knw what to really say, cus me for one i have great love for my self, n i just also love d company of frnds n loved once , hence i love much care for friends and dont seem to even get a liltle love back in return, i do d care call, find out if they are ok, how tins are going wif them, etc even invite them to Dinner , give them surprice treat,go for their functions without missing one but the always have reason to tell me why they miss mine,go to visit them often but force them to come lets hang out what i say in general though i dont really do all i do to get it back, but i just like to b loved too just as i love much,smtimes just loving yourself cant just be enough we all need one another n like to b loved to, need a clarity on this what do i do? Holla @ me @ [email protected].

  • Guest

    Loving yourself or say within is fine to some extend, however this would also makes me selfish. I would rather give my love unconditional. That would make me at least a better person.

  • lost

    This helps a little with my situation, see the girl i love loves me too but she’s an open girl who “loves” other guys as well she tearing me apart to kno ow im not the only one who makes her giggle and laugh and make moments like we do or i thought we did can you help with something like this, because forsom reason i can quit on her.
    I am 15, and needing help.

  • Onyx Queen

    Thank you Mastin for this wonderfully simplistic advice!

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  • Rose

    Thank you so much for this article..i feel like dying when the man who i love only accept me as his booty calls. I was longing for him to treat me like a special woman or perhaps love me back. But he only wants me for sex..I didnt ask him about his feelings for me but from the way he treated me, i know i dont have a special place in his heart..i feel some hope again after reading this. I plan to keep away from him and see if he will ever look for me…

  • CARDENAS

    My name is Mr Cardenas,my wife was having affair with a senior secretary in her office. I love this woman so much that i would not want to share her with any body. i told her to retire from the job and i would take care of all her needs but she would take it because she is been embraced by everybody in her office, this normally leads to quarrel every-time. i tried all i can to please her and she will promise to be good , some days later she will turn back to her normal way.
    i was nearly loosing out, i could not focus in my job, my whole life was full of sorrow and i was thinking i should kill the other man my self and put an end to all this until i saw a testimony from a blog on how DR EDIONWE could cast a love spell to bring lovers back no matter what is behind the disappointment. so i decided to write him via email. [email protected] and now all my wishes are exactly as i wanted. She told me everything that has happened secretly in the past and i forgave her as DR EDIONWE instructed me to and she loves me and care for me as i ever wanted. i know there are many spells that do not work but i want to assure all you out there no matter what you have been trough to have faith and believe that this is the final solution to your problem.
    Even if my job is taking most of my time, the little free time i have , i will share the good news to everyone in the world because i know that with love brings happiness and hope for a long life.

  • Christina

    I still love you…

  • lostinsomanyways

    I am so in love with her. I do not know how to even start getting over her. It’s been this way for about 5-6 years. And everyday it seems like a love her more and more. Even though I barely get to see her, and her boyfriend is a friend of mine. Why does love do this? Why does love push you into a corner where you thought was going to be green fields? Why does love leave you stranded and confused? Why does love hurt? Is it supposed to? Or am I doing it wrong? Is there such a thing as true love? Or is it just fairy tales and movies that made us think that there is? I guess I use to think that there was true love. I am a fucking idiot. If hearth has no fire , tis best slay the false heart. I need some advice.

  • RC

    You have just renewed so much faith in me. Thank you! They were the words that I already knew and I was searching for tonight. I feel like I’ve come so far on a personal journey and then out of the blue this situation arose with somebody with whom I have the strongest soul connection I’ve ever felt, yet I recognise that we are not in the same place in life. I can’t remain hopeful that he will ever get to that place, I can’t or won’t sacrifice myself any longer unconsciously waiting. I must put my path and myself and my love for myself first again.
    There are always bright sides, and this experience has helped to bring up old fears from previous relationships such as a fear of being loved by someone because I hurt my ex so badly even after he treated me so well. Since then I haven’t attracted the right partners for me as they mirror an unconscious desire not to get too close and hurt someone again.
    I think this torture has taught me once and for all that I do deserve happiness in spite of past choices. I turned my back on that previous relationship because it didn’t feel right and I have the right to honour my feelings and my own needs. That has just come to me as I wrote it, more awareness.
    It’s amazing how pain we have felt or caused to others in the past can continue to project for so long, but as you have pointed out here, it all comes back to that journey toward self love. At the end of the day it serves us to be grateful for situations that feel painful and thus cause us so much growth : )

  • RC

    Upon further reflection of this great article and some solid soul searching, I realised that I only needed to break down my own ego to find the true love that I had for myself and the other person. I now believe that the perception of love being unrequited is only the case when that love is conditional. When you are waiting and hoping for the other person to return the love that you are putting out there. Now that I have opened to the feeling of unconditional love, that is the love that we all are, that love is expansive. I now see that I need nothing from the other person and that this feeling of love is a gift, that it is only a reflection of myself. I had to break through a very rational understanding of what I was feeling (the last year plus of endless thinking!) just to feel this endless love now and I now see that I did not need to be afraid to ‘fall’ for someone who wasn’t reciprocating. The realisation of unconditonal love is eternal and it helps you to see that you are not separate from the object of your desire-and thus you don’t ‘need’ the object as such, they are only something beautiful to appreciate, as are all things in life. Realising that releases us from the prison of the mind and the ego that tells us that we lose when we love without reciprocation. I now see that if love causes pain, this is only because there are conditions on that love. The pain is the ego resisting the soul’s desire to love without boundaries. This is true for so many cases of emotional pain and it includes the way in which we love ourselves (which is one and the same I now see as I feel the love I’m sending out/I am that love!)

    So thank you for your article that got me thinking about all of this and ultimately opened my heart in just 24 hours of reflection. I was close to the understanding, but you have provided a beautiful catalyst.

    Much love and light :)

  • peter walter

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  • Narol Denison

    i will like to share my testimony to you all.i just got married to
    my husband about a year ago we start having problems at home like we
    stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he always
    comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with other women
    out side.i have never love any man in my life except him.he is the
    father of my children and i don’t want to loose him because we have
    worked so hard together to become what we are and have today.few month
    ago he now decided to live me and the kid,being a single mother can be
    hard sometimes and so i have nobody to turn to and i was heart broken.i
    called my mom and explain every thing to her,my mother told me about Dr
    Jatto how he helped her solve the problem between her and my dad i was
    surprise about it because they have been without each other for three
    and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each
    other.i was directed to Dr Jatto and explain everything to him,so he
    promise me not to worry that he will cast a spell and make things come
    back to how we where so much in love again and that it was another
    female spirit that was controlling my husband.he told me that my problem
    will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK.So he cast a
    spell for me and after two days my love came back asking me to forgive
    him.i Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with
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    narol denison

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  • Tony Monopoly

    maybe we don’t love ourselves because we are unloved from the ones we love. so simply love ourselves is to love others. if I have feelings for him/her and he/she doesnt have the same feelings for me than how unfair is that? especially when i poured out my heart to feel loved. how can one feel any love if you keep getting rejected? trust me ive loved and loved yet im still rejected. im a good person but that doesnt matter apparently. finding the right person is an excuse to break up with the individual. people need commitment and not someone who will leave them or reject them. politleness respect go a long way in a relationship on both ends. love each other and you both will feel loved.

  • Frank Silver

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  • annonymous

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  • Jude Jackson

    My Name is JUDE JACKSON .I will love to share my testimony
    to all the
    people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend
    back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry
    to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another man..,When i
    called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her
    Facebook and she changed her Facebook status from married to
    Single…when i went to her place of work she told her boss she
    never want to see me..i lost my job as a result of this cos i cant
    get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did
    not go smooth with my life…I tried all i could do to have her back
    to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to
    execute some business have been developing some years
    back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in
    getting her back and how i lost my job…he told me he gonna
    help me…i don’t believe that in the first place.but he swore he will
    help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me
    and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i
    heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will
    see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to
    US the following day and i called him when i got home and he
    said he’s busy casting those spells and he has bought all the
    materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive
    results in the next 2 days that is Thursday…My girlfriend called
    me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she
    had done ..she said,she never knew what she’s doing and her
    sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do
    that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her
    and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my
    wife called and he said i haven’t seen anything yet… he said i will
    also get my job back in 2 days time..and when its Sunday,they
    called me at my place of work that i should resume working on
    Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have
    spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have
    my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and
    i have my job back too,This man is really powerful..if we have up
    to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a
    better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve
    many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to
    the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for
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    he’ will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped you out
    too..
    good luck
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    REGARDS……..,.,.,.,
    JUDE JACKSON….

  • Lidia Mckinney

    i just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my lover back and saved my marriage… I was married for 4 years with 3 kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had a fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce… I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me cause i loved him with all my heart and didn’t want to loose him but everything just didn’t work out. he moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked until i met Dr Ikhine on internet and i contacted him on [email protected] and i also call him on +2347060552255 and i explain everything to him and he help me solve my problem

  • Andrea Julie

    My name is Andrea Julie from Illinois in USA. Am here to testify of a great and powerful spell caster named Priest Kuvuki via his email: ( [email protected] ). I was so confused and devastated when my boy friend left me for another girl. I needed him back desperately because i loved him so much. So i contacted this great spell caster for a help. He helped me cast a return love spell on him and just within 12 to 16 hours my boy friend came back to me crying and begging for my forgiveness. I want to recommend this great spell caster to anyone that truly needs an urgent solution to a love break up. Simply contact the great Priest Kuvuki via his email address

    ( [email protected] )

  • Allan

    Following a breakdown in my marriage last year (where I felt we weren’t really meant to be), I befriended my now closest friend who also got cheated on and dumped by her partner. We have become so close as friends that without knowing it, I had fallen totally in love with her. She doesn’t return the affection. Our friendship has continued to flourish, but my love for her has grown so strong. In my head I know I should let go, and find someone who would share the affection, but my heart and my dreams are always for my friend, and the thought of not having a relationship is really causing me pain and heartache. To other friends of ours, who know how I feel of her, they can’t understand why I hold on. It’s a level of love for her that I really can’t let go, and it only hurts me more when she dates another guy, and gets hurt herself when she gets used by them.

  • Adams Bella

    My name is Adams Bella, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr.Trust of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.Trust you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on ([email protected] or [email protected]) or call him +2348156885231. he is the best caster that can help you with your problems.

  • Adams Bella

    My name is Adams Bella, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr.Trust of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.Trust you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on ([email protected] or [email protected]) or call him +2348156885231. he is the best caster that can help you with your problems…

  • https://www.facebook.com/adams.tricail adams trace

    What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen.my name is Adams Trace i am from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 24 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help. i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr.ogala, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr.ogala. I contacted his email address.And i told him everything that happen all he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after One hour my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address:([email protected], if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. He can use his HOLY spell to help you. his web site http://holyspellcast.webs.com and you can also call him +2348072371282 THANKS..

  • https://www.facebook.com/adams.tricail adams trace

    What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen.my name is Adams Trace i am from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 24 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help. i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr.ogala, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr.ogala. I contacted his email address.And i told him everything that happen all he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after One hour my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address:([email protected], if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. He can use his HOLY spell to help you. his web site http://holyspellcast.webs.com and you can also call him +2348072371282 THANKS…

  • Emma Russell

    I saw Nadezhda Vyacheslav testimony on how she got that guy to love her as she did him.Though i don’t know her, i believed her cos she said Mutton Osun a spell caster help her seen it happen. I didn’t believe her cos she used a spell i believed her cos she made mention of a mutual spell caster i know of that is mutton Osun. I have also see a lot of testimony about his work on the the internet on blog pages and so on. I literally took a lip of faith to contact him and it turn out that it paid off. In my own case i didn’t ask that him to make anyone fall in love with me or ask that my cheating wife comes back. This time i was at fault i messed up.Will really like to say it was an honest mistake or a few hours or days of weakness but then i will be insulting my wife and the love i feel for her. I was in full control of what i was doing i had the choice not to cheat but i still did. She didn’t find out by herself i told hoping if i told her how sorry i am and how much i still love and want to be with her despite my betray she will forgive completely. It was the biggest mistake of my life maybe i should not have told her, i guess she would have still found out if she didn’t catch me then i bet the other lady would have told her what was going on to destroy what me and my wife had. It was obvious my betray really hurt her i could she it in her eye and i was really sorry. That is why i wasn’t so surprise when she asked that we go our separate ways. There and then i realized that i was following the part that ruined my life and my family. I literally lead four month of my life in misery. I have never felt like i needed her like i had felt begging was not an option nothing was an option cos she was gone. It was right about that time Mutton Osun came into the picture or when i asked that he help me get my wife to love as she did before. I was able to provide the items he asked that i get for the spell and send then down to him. Like Nadezhda Vyacheslav said “the spell does become effective at once that ” she was right also cos just after i did what Mutton Osun asked me to do with what he sent me, it took 7 days before anything happened i even thought for a minute that i had met a fake spell caster but in the end i am happy with my wife again. We going to be renewing our vows on the 20th of September. I was on the edge of become a walking dead a woman with nothing to live for thank my star Mutton Osun helped. I will also leave his contact for those who thing he can help them { [email protected] }

  • Owner

    i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted Dr papa for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr papa casted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Papa for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact [email protected] and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.

  • Lyev Mahrk

    Being attracted to the same sex in countries like USA,UK Canada is really easily as i have heard.There are still people there who don’t like people like us but it not as bad as that of Russia cos here we are beaten jailed and sometimes even killed.You can’t hold the hand of the one you care about in the public so as to avoid been harassed we can even set a place to me cos if we are caught we face jail time.Here in Russia we gay are prisoner in our own country.I am currently in a relation with my fiance and we had to leave Russia to be together.Before now his parent were against our relationship cos they had no idea he was gay we sneaked around knowing the risks if we were to be caught.When he finally got heart to tell him family the rejected him and asked he stops seeing me or they were going to turn him in and that scared him a lot his father is a very powerful man in Russia and he made it possible for him not to be able to live the country i mean as long as you have money in Russia anything goes.I was lucky they never got to meet me cos if they did i would have not been here right now writing this article that you are all reading.Probably i would have been in jail.Months passed and there was no way we could see each other cos they had him watched to make sure he is never get to meet me and also to know the person the was he was practicing this profane act with as they called it.They stripped him of all his right to the family assets and made him an outcast i could see he was suffering form the text he was sending me they made his life miserable and made him end our relationship.I knew he was confused and did know what to do to get his life back to make his family see him the way they use to.And i knew that his family were never going to accept his life style cos they are so anti gay.If they were to be a fund riser to fight gay practice in Russia his family will be the first to ask that they host it.I love him so much but he was scared of him family and they also had a grip on him.I know most person don’t believe in what about to say but still if it wasn’t for Mutton Osun a spell caster that i found on the internet i would not have been writing this.It happened maybe by a slim chance or fate that i was a blog were it happened that i read three distinct comment about how he help them with similar problem.I contacted him with an email address that was in the comment.I asked Mutton Osun to cast a spell to make my then boyfriend to make up his mind to run away from Russia with me to be together and also his family as in his father to make it possible for him to leave Russia with me and set a very comfortable life for us were we were going.And i know doing spells with someone you can’t even see is outrageous but i promise you he makes you feel more at else when he calls and he really goes through with his promise cos he did with mine he was really helpful to him and kind.And like other people said he doesn’t even charge you for what he is doing for you.I had to provide some list of materials that he asked that i get for my spell casting.I preferred that i sent the money down to him cos they were not easy to find and even when i found them it was so expensive but he could get them cheaply.He instructed me on how to make the spell work with great effect.It took 7 seven day and night to see it result.On the seventh night my boyfriend call me to tell me we could finally be together cos his father did agreed to do all i asked mutton osun to make him do i just knew at once it was Mutton Osun spell cos it what i asked for and now me and fiance are the happiest right now we can hold hand now without fear of being harassed or sent to jail for we are in love and we are very comfortable here.His father made sure everything was set before we even got here just like i asked it should be.Am going to also leave Mutton Osun email here just like others have done for contact purpose [email protected]

  • Albert Sarah

    Hello friends,i can’t really believe that i am with my Ex-Husband again,after when he broke up with me a year ago,i give thanks to mallam aahil of [email protected] for helping me
    getting back my man back,I am sarah albert, i am
    from holland and my man name is clement albert,my
    happiness turn to bitterness,my joy turn to sorrow,my love turn to hatred,when my husband broke up with me,I was so frustrated and i could not know what next to do again and i could not concentrate any
    more, i love my husband so much but he was cheating on me with another woman and these makes him broke up with me so that he can be able to get marry to the other lady and this lady cast a spell on my husband to make him hate me and my kids and this was so critical and I cry all day and night for God to send me a helper to get back my man,until i went to denmark to see a friend and who was having the same problem with me but she latter got her Husband back and i asked her how she was
    able to get her husband back and she told me that their was a powerful spell caster in Africa name mallam aahil that he help with love spell in getting back lost lover’s back and I decided to contact the same mallam aahil and he told me
    what is needed to be done for me to have my man back and i did it although i doubted it but i did it and the mallam told me that i will get the result after 48hours, and he told me that my husband was going to call me by 7pm in my time and I still doubted his word, to my surprise my husband really
    called me and told me that he miss me so much,Oh My God i was so happy, and today i am happy with my man again and we are joyfully living together as one good family and I thank the powerful spell caster mallam aahil of [email protected], he is so powerful and I decided to share my story on the internet that good spell casters still exist and mallam aahil is one of the good spell caster,who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are there and your lover is
    turning you down, or you have your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore contact the powerful spell caster mallam aahil on his email:
    [email protected] and he will answer you, I am a living testimony and i will continue to testify of his goodness in my family,he turn my family to paradise and today we are all happy together,mallam aahil i say a big thanks in a million times sir.

  • Anita Mayangpuspa

    Dear Mastin, I had this reflection done to me before. I thought to myself, you know what. the good thing that he rejects you is that, so you know that he is not the one who would love me. Then I kinda ignore him and try to enjoy my me time. Turns out what…. I missed him a lot and returns to contact him back. OMG weak me. I am now like AARRGH how to deal w this !!! I miss him a lot when he is away !! he is super sweet he is just a commitment phobic besides even if he is not there are so many things to keep us apart as in believes family views etc. IDK what to do with this feeling now I hate this missing someone feeling as much as I love the thrill but also sadly tired knowing this is an endless chasing. ARGH

  • Rita Smith

    Dr. Telemi is a trust worthy spell caster and he will
    be of great help to you. I never believed in spell casting but After 4
    years of marriage my husband left me because I lost my womb, and i was
    unable to give birth to children. I felt like my life has come to an
    end, and i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very
    long time, but thanks to this spell caster called Dr. Telemi whom i met
    online after my friend Tracy James told me how he also helped her to
    bring back her husband in less than 2 days. I believed her and decided
    to give Dr. Telemi a try and i contacted him on his email [email protected]
    and explained my problems to him. He laughed and told me that In less
    than 2 days, my Husband will come back for me again, and that he will
    restore my womb and i will give birth to children. At first i thought it
    was a lie but i took courage and believed as Dr. Telemi has said and it
    did happen just as this Great spell caster said, My husband called me
    and was crying, apologizing for forgiveness. I forgave him and today i
    am so glad that all worries and problems has gone away, and we are even
    happier than before, another good news is that i am pregnant now, and
    very soon we are expecting our baby. Dr. Telemi is really a gifted and a
    powerful spiritual man and i will not stop publishing him because he is
    a wonderful man. I advice you all If you have a problem and you are
    looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems
    just Contact Dr Telemi on his email on [email protected]
    at anytime, because he will always help you to solve all your problems.
    Once again thank you Dr. Telemi. Thank you, thank you.

    Dr. Telemi is a trust worthy spell caster and he will
    be of great help to you. I never believed in spell casting but After 4
    years of marriage my husband left me because I lost my womb, and i was
    unable to give birth to children. I felt like my life has come to an
    end, and i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very
    long time, but thanks to this spell caster called Dr. Telemi whom i met
    online after my friend Tracy James told me how he also helped her to
    bring back her husband in less than 2 days. I believed her and decided
    to give Dr. Telemi a try and i contacted him on his email [email protected]
    and explained my problems to him. He laughed and told me that In less
    than 2 days, my Husband will come back for me again, and that he will
    restore my womb and i will give birth to children. At first i thought it
    was a lie but i took courage and believed as Dr. Telemi has said and it
    did happen just as this Great spell caster said, My husband called me
    and was crying, apologizing for forgiveness. I forgave him and today i
    am so glad that all worries and problems has gone away, and we are even
    happier than before, another good news is that i am pregnant now, and
    very soon we are expecting our baby. Dr. Telemi is really a gifted and a
    powerful spiritual man and i will not stop publishing him because he is
    a wonderful man. I advice you all If you have a problem and you are
    looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems
    just Contact Dr Telemi on his email on [email protected]
    at anytime, because he will always help you to solve all your problems.
    Once again thank you Dr. Telemi. Thank you, thank you.